Which vaccinations and routine check-ups should I not forget?

With everything I have to manage in my father's daily life, I get lost with appointments and vaccinations. I'm afraid of forgetting something important for his health. What absolutely cannot be missed?

Managing someone else's health, in addition to our own, is a huge burden and it's absolutely normal to feel like something might slip through the cracks. Getting organised is an act of care, not perfect obligation.

Why it happens

A person with dementia is more vulnerable to infections and falls, and any preventable illness can cause a sudden worsening of confusion. Prevention avoids hospitalisations and unnecessary suffering.

Practical strategies

• Speak to the GP about recommended vaccinations, especially the flu jab (annual) and the COVID-19 vaccine, according to current guidelines.
• Ask if vaccines such as tetanus and pneumonia are up to date, according to the National Vaccination Programme.
• Maintain routine appointments: vision, hearing, oral health and prosthetics, feet, and medication review.
• Use a single diary or app to record dates and reports.

What NOT to do

• Do not assume "it's all done" without confirming; ask for an updated vaccination record.
• Do not postpone vision and hearing appointments: sensory deficits increase confusion.

When to seek professional help

The GP is your main ally in planning this schedule. Ask for a general review appointment and medication adjustment. The health centre nursing staff can also help organise vaccinations.

"I started taking a small notebook to all appointments. It was the best way to not leave anything behind." — Anonymous Carer