What to do with weapons and dangerous objects at home?

My father has always had a shotgun at home, and now, with the confusion and some moments of agitation, I'm starting to fear he might unintentionally hurt himself or someone else. How should I deal with weapons and other dangerous objects?

Thinking about this possibility is frightening and stirs many emotions, especially when the weapon is part of the person's history and identity. Anticipating the risk is a responsible act.

Why it happens

Dementia can bring confusion, delusions, fear, or agitation. In these moments, the person may not recognise family members, feel threatened, or use an object without understanding the danger. The risk exists even without any intention to cause harm.

Practical strategies

• Absolute priority: remove weapons from the house or entrust them to someone trustworthy outside the home.
• Store ammunition separately and inquire about the legal status and licensing with the competent authorities (local police).
• Store knives, tools, scissors, and sharp objects in a locked place.
• Do this discreetly, without confrontation, taking advantage of a calm moment.
• Periodically reassess the home as the disease progresses.

What NOT to do

• Do not leave weapons accessible "because he always knew how to use them."
• Do not discuss their removal during a moment of agitation or accuse them of being dangerous.

When to seek professional help

If there is aggression, delusions, or threats, speak to your GP, who can assess the situation. In immediate danger, call 999. For weapon licensing questions, contact your local police.

"I took the shotgun out of the house without telling him. He didn't even notice it was gone, and I started to breathe differently." — Anonymous Carer